Have you ever tried of stalking someone to the point where you will do every possible action just to see that girl of your dreams? Is it right or wrong, for the name of love, lust and *Insert erotic adjective here*?  Probably on that situation there is really something more than just a regular itch. A growing feeling which makes you invincible and reactive, you may call it adrenaline for Love or whatever your purposes are. 

Stalking for love is a very difficult and tricky thing to do aside from the derogatory cliché of “stalker”, you would also feel like you are in chess game and your moves must be two to three steps ahead of your Queen.  Your Queen but you are not the prince; feels like you are in a Medieval setting movie. It is difficult to be stalker because you keep on seeing and gathering info about the girl of your dreams but you are not getting any attention back.

Stalking of famous personalities/celebrities is the highest form and most difficult form of stalking. You have so many competitions and following her would be very expensive. Unless you are the rich and desperate type and your favorite song is “I’m your biggest fan I’ll follow you until you love me, papa paparazzi”.  Crazy right? But some would really be willing to do that, for the sake of love and fanaticism.

Online stalking is also another form, it would be less expensive but more exhausting, exhausting in the sense that you will be staying up all night just to gather information and interesting scoops. In case your (let’s use the term Queen for the person you are stalking) Queen is already dating or seeing someone, you’re heart would be broken and your computer monitor might also break.

There are two kinds of online stalkers, the obvious ones and the more discreet ones. The discreet ones are those who people who are more careful of their moves and tasks, that’s why they are called discreet ones. The obvious ones are those who are willing to give their identity but there is something lacking on them, perhaps courage, timing or readiness state of mind or it could also be that they are not the Queen’s type but desperation and lack of other move urges them to do that. In short they feel that they’re not yet pawned on the chess game of love.

Everything in life is really like a chess game, for an instance there are certain strategies and moves that suit your goals, in love strategies are more complicated and the results or the aftermath of your moves is very painstaking. Lucky those who are brave and lucky enough to win the battle for love. But there is really one solution if you want to win your Queen, go out of the stalker lens and go for the brave one’s lens.